How does one succeed in life?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Is it possible for sociopaths to feel genuine remorse for their actions or thoughts towards others, even if they are skilled at hiding it from others?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

Do many women shave their vaginas?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What is the reason behind some people referring to themselves as "nice guys" instead of simply being nice?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Have you ever had sex with your husband's friend in front of your husband? Please tell about it and elaborate.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

He said he loves me, but why is it difficult for him to leave his wife?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

That's it for today.

I am still studying engineering. I feel worried being an average student. Can I get a good job in placement, buy a house, and a car? I don't know why I feel this.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Why are American university students fine with sharing a room?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Will my parents go to hell if I don't wear hijab, they tried to convince me and they provided it to me but I don't want to wear it?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why are people so rude to debt collector’s? I am one and I am so tired of being mistreated. We are under paid and then have to deal with the most ungrateful, and disrespectful people. We aren’t customer service. Don’t get mad at us because YOU owe.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?